public speaking international
You are always ready to Speech
The funniest part of the presentation and public speaking is that most people will tell you that does not enjoy the same and / or are not very good at it. Yet, no matter who they are and what they do, most of the terms they do everyday is to speak in public.
You see, especially when we talk about ourselves as we maintain an internal dialogue that no one can hear. But each Once we actually mouth and making noise in front of another person we are speaking in public – hence the "public speaking". So why so people is so frightening?
I think it's the eyes. All these pairs of eyes on you ….. Bored. It is disturbing. It would be easier if the public you were to ignore and watch all of the other? What would happen if they all fell asleep, and it was as if talking to yourself? (Have you ever had been a rotary speaker after dinner?)
Whatever the reason, the fact is that before rising to speak, even the most experienced professionals will be some butterflies, if you decide to appeal to a sense of nervousness or emotion does not really matter. Rest assured, we all feel a certain extent.
If I had any advice to pass, if I were asked to say the most important lesson I've learned over the years I was the presentation, emphasis should be the absolute necessity to be well prepared.
Now this may seem obvious, and I'm sure you've heard this before, perhaps several times, and Like many important messages that is weakening again, we hear "Oh yes, I know now what else?".
And yet But knowing this, some people are in the second car park before delivering their sales pitch scribbled on the back of a card. I know I've been there.
When I say he is ready, I want you to know your speech by heart. You should be able to give word for word from standing on his head, without even having to think about what comes next.
Now some of you may thinking: "Yes, but I do not work well. I prefer to keep the spontaneity "or" Yes, but I adjust my speech on "or" Yes, but it would be boring because I had been on autopilot. "
But really, this is not what happens. In fact, the opposite is true. When you know your speech on memory, which gives the freedom to move around to add, subtract, without losing its meaning. It's like driving from A to B. If the path is established from the beginning and you know, probably in May and drift sail in a few antique shops and a meal in a pub in a picturesque village off the beaten track and always return to where he was completing his journey. But if only he had made Branch, with no way back, he quickly lost if they had to be diverted and would have difficulty collecting over again.
You see things, there are many out there who can throw the speaker, and many unexpected things can happen when dealing with the public. No matter how good you are, you're distracted, not knowing if their material to the nth degree is absolutely crucial.
If something happens that needs your attention, you have to stop and deal with it, but it can return to his conversation with barely a problem and seems calm, collected, Therefore, the ultimate professional.
You see that all get nervous. All we stick our foot in his mouth sometimes. We do not always work in a hermetic environment, especially when exposed to other humans. However, development, production and over-prepare and not only enjoy the confidence of knowing that nothing can phase because he knows his material, but if you are forced to leave the track chosen for any reason, you can return safely and appears to be the consummate professional speaker.
And after all, if you can – O no – talking about their business, who will?
Gary Genard – Public Speaking International